DEAR HARRIETTE: Many of my friends are about to be empty nesters, including me. My son is graduating from high school and moving away for school. The same goes for the kids of three of my closest friends. We are all in a bit of a panic about what life will be like after our kids are gone. We are all married, but that doesn't necessarily mean everything is perfect. My husband and I bicker all the time. I don't know how much I will be able to tolerate after our son, our buffer, is gone. What do you recommend? – No More Buffer
